About Mentoring
  • What does mentoring really mean?
  • Benefits of Mentoring

     

  • Program Roles
  • The Employer
  • The Mentor
  • The Mentee

     

  • General Guidelines

     

    Other Resources
  • Related Sites
  • Publications

     

  • Conversations
  • Complementing Each Other's Strengths: Two Perspectives
  • Why is mentoring important?
  • How has being mentored advanced your career?
  • How has your company benefited from you being a mentor?
  • How does your company encourage mentoring?

     


  • Mentoring Program Organization

    Role of the Employer:

    • Foster a professional work setting that provides a stimulating, stable, and rewarding environment. It will help to attract, retain, and develop employees in providing professional services to clients.
    • Focus senior resources on the mentoring issue.
    • Provide training for mentors regarding program expectation and effective techniques.
    • Establish and implement the mentoring program.
    • Monitor the performance of the mentoring procedures.

     

    Role of the Mentor:

    The mentor is a consistent, comprehensive advisor, advocate, and coach--as opposed to a more technical, project-specific teacher.

    As Individual

    • Accept the mentee for what he/she is.
    • Be supportive and realistic.
    • Be honest and encouraging.
    • Build confidence in your mentee.
    • Maintain open and clear lines of communication.
    • Be respectful of the mentee's social and cultural environment.
    • Offer useful information.
    • Teach networking and make introductions.
    • Be willing to give open and honest feedback about the mentoring program to both the mentee and the employer.

    As Career Coach

    • Advise the mentee on career paths and technical development opportunities within the organization and in professional societies.
    • Help the mentee design his/her skills and career goals.
    • Motivate the mentee to initiate activities on his/her own behalf and to perform at his/her highest level.
    • Guide the mentee by providing him/her with frank, contructive information and feedback.

    As Advocate

    • Advise the mentee on official and unofficial organizational practices that may be helpful in developing their full professional potential.
    • Intercede, where appropriate, with personnel up, down, and across the organization to provide the mentee with challenging development opportunities.

     

    Role of the Mentee:

    • Assess your development needs and goals.
    • Demonstrate an interest in your development and be proactive about pursuing opportunities.
    • Develop a plan for your mentoring relationship and be prepared to discuss
    • Schedule a meeting with your mentor.
    • Communicate your development needs and goals to your mentor.
    • Think of and discuss possible mentoring activities.
    • Maintain open and clear lines of communication.
    • Listen carefully to the mentor.
    • Accept the mentor for what he/she is.
    • Have confidence.
    • Do not expect the mentor to work miracles for you.
    • Be flexible in the mentoring relationship.
    • Be willing to give open and honest feedback about the mentoring program.
    • Use the experience, knowledge, and wisdom of the mentor.
    • Do not become intimidated.

     


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    Last Updated: 21 April 2000

     

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